Hi Folks:
Just a small cautionary tale about the Sailing Rules of the Road.
I was out of my favorite lake yesterday, just having a fine daysail with a buddy of mine. We were lazily swapping tacks across the lake with a small cruiser (maybe 22' long) when we got into a crossing situation with her, as we were both trying to round a point on land. We were on port tack, she on star, closing with steady bearing, definitely a collision course at some 5-6 knots of speed (it was a very nice day!). She obviously had right of way and my plan was to get within a boat-length (hers, not mine) and duck behind her. Easy-peasy and not losing too much windward ground on our way up to the point.
To my great surprise, the other boat gave way at about 3 boat-lengths distance, bearing off and heading straight into me and my give-way path. I quickly hollered "YOU stand-on! I give way!" and gave way the instant she started to head up again (Plan B was to tack if she kept coming on, since bearing off would just accelerate us into a collision). No harm done and we exchanged pleasantries as we passed.. such a pretty day, how can you not smile?
But.. lesson learned. Unless you are racing, you're cruising! Don't act like it's Race 7 of the AC, especially not in a lil' old DS. Make your intentions clear early. And don't assume everyone knows the rules of the road. I should have given way about 3 1/2 or 4 boat lengths out, and/or hailed the other boat to let them know that I would be giving way. If the positions were reversed, I should be telling them that I'd stand on or better yet "I'll hold course". Certainly not shout "Starboard!" As I've written here many times, I don't race (anymore), but old habits die hard. And for all the drama, I still made the point on my next tack, so my plan to shave her stern was completely unnecessary. I forgot the #1 Rule of the Road, which is "Don't make the other skipper sweat."